I have never considered myself as much of a collector, over the years I have toyed with the idea of collecting something but then thought what is the point, whatever it was it would sit in a cupboard gathering dust and being forgotten about.
Coins for me are a little different, I am not collecting them so that I can show them off, its purely for my own pleasure. I enjoy a Sunday afternoon with a cup of tea and no one bothering me with my modest collection in front of me. I will pick one at random and give it a good hard looking at under a loupe. I like the way the light shine across the surface and shows of the toning or I may notice something that I missed previously.
I guess what I am saying is that its something just for me and no one else and I don't have to try and convince anyone otherwise.
I do get a satisfaction from buying them and looking for ones that I don't already have and of course who does not love an upgrade
This forum also plays a big part in the process, I think without it I would have probably gone off the boil.